Very normal, I want the same thing. Someone to know and understand me, and not necessarily be all over me, but love me just the same. Not creepy at all, quite the opposite in fact. You have a good hold on what really matters.
1) no, the ages are close enough. I've liked older girls.
2) it might make the girl feel pressured to "do it" but it's not weird.
3) That could cause some tension, but again, not weird.
4) Yeah, that could be a problem.
5)...
I still like thin girls, of course, but for some reason I seem to have a great attraction to thick girls, too. I love chubby bellies and thick thighs, and for the longest time I thought that I was completely messed up. But I can't deny that I think that they're actually beautiful - I find myself...
Oh, definitely not weird. Some people don't even date until age 16. I haven't had my first kiss, because I haven't found the right girl yet. There's nothing wrong with that, I just don't think that now is the time.