you don't. you realize he is a loser and look for a guy who isn't in jail, and can like actually help you raise your child. and none of that "it was trumped up charges" or "he is totally innocent" crud. odds are he is guilty, or should have been hanging out with people who wouldn't have caused...
ahahahaha. looks like your out both a family member and a friend. you really shouldn't be friends with someone who wants to actually marry a lifer in jail, never the less actually stay in contact with a family member who is going to get life in jail. you need to surround yourself with like a...