I think that the two of you should sit down and write everything that is expected of you. If you're working a 9-5 job [with a lunch break...] while she is playing the role of mommy and/or housewife for 24 hours, then maybe you should make your own breakfast and let her sleep. Or maybe you two...
Examples:
My little brother bites his nails
I pop zits..it's disgusting. I even like popping other people's zits...but I never ask. I'm only tempted to do it.. lol