For in opening to a debate I like up to "But what is the government doing to fix this". Then you should state what I intend to prove is Teaching them ....etc.
You don't start the debate in your opening statement your opponent my use it against you.
From an evolutionary stand point women are meant to be social. When raising children it is best to have support of a social group. To be part of that group you need to fit in and not stand out.
Men are the hunters providers. They need close friends to help them with a big kill but to many...