Being a gold digger just means you are after the money. Just because you want a guy that will do things to make you feel special isn't at all the same. Most women want that same sort of thing, little things from her man to remind her that he was thinking of her.
Never a good way to start things off.
Right now he is trying to figure out what the heck happened. Are you a slut, is he himself feeling like a slut. Were you using him, was he using you. All kinds of not so fun questions, and he is gonna feel weird at best, about the whole situation. You...