well, I'm going to assume you don't give him anything he wants when he whines, right? If he whines you are not getting his drink fast enough, etc. don't give him the drink period. when my 28 month old does this I take her down from the table all together and she gets the point. just...
It's crazy that people can have kids and just not care about them, isn't it? It must be very hard for you. Anyways, he is probably just using the child support issue as an excuse, even if you put a stop to it things probably would not change. If my child's father acted like that I would not want...